– Safe and Single Scam

This site is part of a family of scam sites branded as Safe and Single.  They use a series of different URL’s with the exact same web page design. is an attempt to get your money through a “get verified” online dating scam. Let’s see how they do it…

The Setup

I have not seen any bait email or craigslist ads for this site. How I found this site will remain confidential for the time being.

The typical pattern, is that you respond to a personal ad, and in the response, they ask you to send them a note to a different email. That email is monitored programmatically, and the responses you get are automatic. The common term for this is ‘bot’, short for robot.

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When you are in the cycle of these bots, you literally can say anything. No one is reading the response. What will happen is a few emails that are designed to simulate conversation, and escalate interest. Eventually you will receive an email that directs you to the “get verified” online dating scam site. Scam Site

The site touts that it will verify you, and make sure you are 18 and not a sex offender. There is no fee for this, it is free. You just need to provide a credit card so they can verify you. First you enter some basic information, pick a user ID a password, a location, and give them an email. Next, you are presented a page that requests your credit card.

The site displays

You [sic] credit card will not be charged for this verification. This is a private, 100% free and discrete service.

Here is what is really happening…

Thru use of a web programming command, known as IFrame, you are typing your information in another site, without you knowing it. The iframe command is used to display the content from another site, within the site currently displayed in your browser. In this case, uses the website to present the webpage where you are typing. acts as a kind of controller, and click generator. It displays content from, and directs your input to, a rotation of branded dating billing sites. By going to the source code of the web page, and clicking directly on the link (that you can’t see), I was able to determine the actual sites, and see the full content. A very small sample of these branded dating billing sites include:

  • – Count Me In for Love
  • – Confident People Meet
  • – Golfers Need Love

Each of the sites has terms and conditions that reveal the credit card charge. However, because the way the page uses the iframe command, you cannot see this charge – it is blocked. This is the hidden content:

Your access to Dates.Hookup includes a 2 day free trial promo to (name of branded site). If you choose to remain a member of (name of branded site) beyond the trial period your membership will renew at thirty nine dollars and ninety nine cents.

The site does not say this, but no doubt the $39.99 is a recurring monthly charge (like other sites of this nature).

Since the iframe command prevents you from seeing this content, you have no idea that this charge is there, and you are likely not to know about it, until you receive your credit card bill. By then, the trial period has passed.

This rabbit hole goes even deeper

The branded dating billing site has a corresponding branded dating site, such as Underneath these sites, is a white label dating company, which handles the credit card charges, and delivers the “dating” content to the corresponding branded dating site. You can read more about the how this network of scams works, in this post Get Verified: Tinder, Badoo, and Craigslist – Matrix of a Scam.

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Your information is an International Traveler

The owner of the site is Mamun Ali, who reports his location as Dhaka, Bangladesh. The owner of the site is Shifeng Huang, who reports himself in Cixi, the Peoples Republic of China. The branded dating sites can be anywhere, but I have seen most in the U.K., Cyprus, and in the U.S. If that makes you feel uneasy, it should. is a Get Verified Scam

It is easy to see how they are making their money. An entrepreneurial fellow from a far distant corner of the world has set up a website, that leads you to a place where you are signed up for a dating site. Then the money flows back from there. They are no doubt counting on the fact that enough people will be happy to get the recurring charge stopped, and walk away, maybe only out $40-$80.

If you have been snagged by this sort of a scam

What you need to do is call your bank, and dispute the charges. I have no problem with you referring them to this article to back up your story. Any fraud investigator at a bank will be able to take the information I have posted here and verify if needed. Chances are the bank will just reverse the charge as deceptive or fraudulent, and that will be that. Note that you also need to cancel your credit card. You cannot be sure who has your credit card number.

More Clues to the Scam

Faking Location

The website is designed to make you think that your date is nearby. The way they do it is by using a java script code from Geoplugin is code that determines your general location by looking at your IP address. The scam website takes that information and makes it appear as if your “date” is in the same general area as you. If you go to the site from California, you will see Anita near you as well.

No Security

This site does not use secure encryption which is an absolute must when conducting any financial transactions. If you’re not familiar just look at the URL – it should start with httpS. My browser (Chrome) has a small padlock icon as well to show that it is secure. Without the encryption, whatever you type in is openly transmitted on the internet. The site claims a number of secure authorities such as Verisign but that is a scam too. There is no security certificate. Here is the Verisign web site that explains certs and https:

No Home Page

If you go directly to the URL, you will see a very simple directory structure, no home page content. This is generally not needed for how they use the site, which is sending direct deep links to pages underneath the home page. A deep link is when they go to a specific page on the site; it would have some appendix on the URL, such as /sally.

No effort to be found by a search engine

OK a little webmaster 101 stuff here. When you set up a site, you take steps so that the site can be found by search engines. In principle, you want people to find your site. In order to do that, there are some basic steps, such as providing a title and description of the site in the code, technically known as meta tags. The meta tags help the search engine find the site, and describe its’ contents. It only takes a minute or two to put these on your site. (The next time you do a search, look at the search results page, there will be three things, the URL, the Title, and the Description).

Typically when these sites have a home page, they do not have any meta tags. Google will simply say that they cannot provide a description for the site. You can infer from the lack of a site description etc.that the scammer doesn’t want your average search to find their site – that would only draw attention to them. They are content with spamming and scamming.

The same ole pictures

The picture on the website, is our friend Elise, from safedatersverify and other get verified scams. It’s a small world after all.

Of course we do not know where this picture originates from; The lovely Anita/Sophie/Elise is not who is behind the operation. We do know that if you see this picture, it will be a scam. domain registry

Registrant Name: Mamun Ali
Registrant Organization: mamun
Registrant Street: Shukrabad , Dhanmondi -32   
Registrant City: Dhaka
Registrant State/Province: Dhaka
Registrant Postal Code: 1207
Registrant Country: BD
Registrant Phone: +880.1920188561
Registrant Email: Registry

Registrant Name: shifeng huang
Registrant Organization: 
Registrant Street: tong jia xin cun 2#207
Registrant City: cixi
Registrant State/Province: zhejiang
Registrant Postal Code: 315300
Registrant Country: CN
Registrant Phone: +86.57463024231
Registrant Email:

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